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i’m your host martha blessing and thank you for joining me in this episode of the place to be free podcast today i’m

sharing with you a couple of principles from universal laws and there are principles that play a

determining factor when people are trying to heal and looking at at healing modalities

they’re determining factors in whether or not you will move through things quickly or whether you stay stuck where you are

with symptoms and roadblocks in the way a lot of clients and prospective clients reach out to me for help when

they’re in states of fear or overwhelm and they’re feeling low self-worth now those aren’t states that i’m in

judgment about i’ve been there it’s just a fact that those are qualities that they are experiencing

and it’s also part of what’s causing their symptoms quite honestly it’s frustrating at times because

when someone has the experience and the tools to show them the way out of it all and they’re in fear and low self-worth

they hesitate to make a commitment to themselves right so it’s sort of a catch-22

and we’ve all been there i i really truly believe that what happens when they’re in that state

is that their state of awareness is focused on failure from their past attempts with

healing so in this episode i want to teach you about the mechanism and energy and vibration

that needs to be activated within an individual for them to be able to move to a higher

state of awareness and consciousness so that they can move to the next level for their health and well-being and step

into being a full co-creator within their body and their life it’s definitely a mindset piece to the

healing puzzle and so often we aren’t aware that mindset

is what’s getting in the way there’s so much focus and attention put on the body and the physical symptoms

and western medicine about medications and surgeries and procedures

we’re so accustomed to that with illness that we don’t recognize that one of the pieces

that’s missing to this healing puzzle is the mindset piece so let me explain this principle

and the first principle is the very start of all healing comes with a decision let me say that again it’s so simple

it’s profound the very start of all healing comes with a decision now i know that may seem like an almost

ridiculous and simplistic thing to say but let me explain what i really mean by this i talk to

people every single day who are in a state of indecision about their health and let me just say that this was a

condition in a state long before the pandemic occurred i know that it’s only gotten worse for some people but it was there and it was

prevalent in our culture and society long before the pandemic being in this state of indecision about their health

what do i mean by that they want to heal but they haven’t made a decision to heal they want to heal but they haven’t made

a decision to heal and there’s a difference the way the universal law of cause and effect works

the universe cannot bring you the solution to a situation until you make a commitment and a

decision for what it is that you want the how cannot come into your field and

consciousness because you haven’t made the firm decision and made a command to the substance from where all things come

this is the metaphysical aspect and the truth of healing the how we want to know the how how do i heal how do i heal

what’s it going to take how do i heal i get that question several times a day and it cannot come into your field of

consciousness until you make the decision and command it out with your energy for the solution

and this is true about anything not just health and healing but in the case of health and healing you must first say yes to yourself

and what it is that you want you cannot be in indecision now what typically happens

when we don’t understand this law of cause and effect and also the law of polarity people get an idea or an inspiration

and many times they think oh it’s heaven sent this is a divine sign or this is divine guidance

and they investigate a program or a practitioner or course they do some research online they start collecting

information and they think about investing in in the program or investing in a mentor or a coach

but then they go into doubt and fear they start having all kinds of questions because what they’re really doing

is they’re focusing on their failures in the things that didn’t work out from the past

and they wonder if they will fail again and they are actually plugging back into the story

the default programming that’s in their subconscious mind the subconscious mind will get them to focus on the past

wonder if they’re going to fail again go back into their fear and their low self-worth back into indecision and believing that

it can’t work for them the subconscious mind and the default program of unworthiness and sabotage

kicks in and then it tells us things like i want to guarantee i need to know that this is going to

work i’ve tried so many things and the person will think to themself i want a guarantee i want a guarantee

and they can’t see how it’s going to work because they just can’t see anything outside of what has

happened in the past but the truth is here and it’s a very subtle energetic shift

is that you’ve got to make the full decision on what you want and what you believe and make a commitment that it is

possible for you so that the universe can bring you the how the universe cannot bring the how

until someone has decided that they’re going to do it the how doesn’t show up

the solution doesn’t show up until the decision has been made so what happens is if we want the guarantee

before we’ve made the decision it cannot line up because the law doesn’t work

that way the universal law does not work that way when you’re in doubt and fear you’re in survival mode and we don’t

create what it is we want from survival mode and quite honestly god’s source spirit doesn’t know survival mode it

knows expansion and creativity and more life so healing doesn’t happen

from survival mode and in survival mode we think that it has to be hard the mind focuses on lack and scarcity in

the belief that it will be hard or that it isn’t possible and then the person who is looking for

alternatives and solutions they project their fear into

the course or the practitioner or the modality instead of into what it is that they really truly want and what it is they

really truly desire people want to see the end result they want to know that this practitioner of course is going to get them the

results that they want now what’s so interesting is the truth is they are fully capable of having and

achieving what it is that they desire it’s already there it’s already within you you cannot have a desire without the

ability for its fulfillment to be achieved that’s how god works that’s how source works the

job and the purpose of the course in the practitioner is to illuminate what is already within the client to help them

see their way out of this form of scarcity and laugh that’s what illness is it’s a form of scarcity and lack

it’s the opposite end of the scale of polarity there’s health on one end your natural

state of well-being and then there’s illness at the other end and they’re existing at the same time so the job of the the

course or the practitioner is to illuminate what is already within the client to help them see their way out but the

decision and the commitment has to come first the vibration of the decision within someone is what sets the universe

to work on bringing the how i’m going to say that again the decision that comes from within you

is what sets the universe to work on bringing the how to you and then it’s the client’s responsibility to receive

it it’s your responsibility to receive it to keep your internal frequency

aligned to and with the receiving of the request so so many times so often the person has

asked and they’ve made the decision but then they drop back down into the unworthiness and the fear and the doubt

and now they’re no longer aligned with the receiving of it and this is where the sabotage comes in and i see this a lot

when you make the decision and you use your mind and your imagination to uphold that

decision for what it is that you do want you activate a new frequency and it’s one that is not coming from the survival

energy from survival mode that is the first cause being is first cause so you are now

being the decision for healing being the decision for healing and now the effect of you

staying in that place of receivership is being open to what comes and that’s your responsibility

the choice and decision has to be followed by the receiving becoming an open channel for what you desire now how can we be an open channel

if we’re in fear and doubt and uncertainty that is typically where the programs and and and the practitioners

are there to support you and show you the way if you don’t choose for what it is that you

want god cannot move through you and bring you your desires it can’t line up i did a medical intuitive reading for

a woman yesterday and she had multiple multiple lists of imbalances and and symptoms that she wanted to address

and her energy was was very desperate when we first got started and very anxious and and she told me she really was like

on her last shred of hope she actually said that she had been getting my newsletter and following my work for several years and she finally

made the decision to book an appointment for a medical intuitive assessment and she she let me know that on top of all

of her health challenges she felt disconnected from her true self now what’s so fascinating and

interesting is that as we were talking she began to cry but they were they were tears of joy and relief and she said to

me i knew i had to do it i knew i had to book an appointment with you and she kept repeating to me and and you know

with her hands and her and her face showing me actions i knew i just knew i had to do it i could feel it strong strong strong i just had a really strong

feeling and she repeated that over and over again while she was releasing the energy and and crying and

even though she was experiencing fear and doubt about what she was going through and how she

was going to heal her health challenges she told me about her knowing with an energy of really true powerful

conviction and intention she was connected to and drawing on her internal compass she didn’t know it she didn’t see the

actual strong connection that she did have with her own intuition and spirit because she had always been focused on

giving her power away to other practitioners and people and she was always focused on the

ailments and what was wrong in her body instead of the connection she did have for healing and listening to her own

wisdom and this is one of the most important and pivotal components of healing but when we’re stuck in the pain

and the emotional wounds of the past we don’t trust ourselves we don’t know what we don’t know

she thought that she was disconnected from herself she said it several times and i pointed out to her no you’re you’re not as disconnected as you think

you are because she said with conviction about the knowing in that moment that she made

that decision in choice she was fully allowing her spirit to lead her and guide her and she was staying open to

the receiving and being an open channel for the decision she had made for her

desire she was in a much stronger place than she really realized so i want you to understand the second principle and

that is the solution is not found in the problem the solution is not found in the problem

the ego mind wants us to ramble around and continue to stay stuck in the problem which is why we don’t find the

solution the solution is in the decision the solution is found

in the decision when you’re focused on the problem you will do nothing but waiver with the fear that’s brought up by the subconscious

mind and the old patterns the ego mind wants us to focus on the rational aspects but intuition is often

the most irrational choice especially to the mind but to the heart and soul

it is completely real and true the only guarantee we have on this healing path is that we are living in an amazing

divine spiritually ordered and ordained bodies that know how to be healthy but with

every influence in the media trying to sell us something or influence us into fear

we’ve come to put our faith in that programming instead of turning to having faith in something we haven’t

experienced yet it’s hard for many of us to have faith in something that we

haven’t experienced yet faith in our bodies faith in our healing but faith does not say

show me and i’ll believe it faith says believe it and i’ll show you which is why the decision

is first cause think about this the next time you find yourself wanting to know and have an absolute guarantee about how something

is going to turn out when you want to know the end result before you are even willing to make a commitment to yourself if you live in

new york and you decide to take a road trip to massachusetts you cannot be sitting in your car in new york and be

in and see your destination in massachusetts when you head out on your trip you can only see

a few hundred feet ahead when i leave my house i can see to the end of my street i can imagine and visualize what it will

be like when i get to my destination but i can’t be in two places at one time

i can only see the closest next step and the same is true for the healing path and the healing journey

you cannot be in two places at one time you cannot be in low self-worth low self-esteem illness

lack scarcity and survival and be in health and healing at the same time there’s a whole bunch of twists and

turns and roads when we start on a journey and a destination it first comes with a

decision i’m going to go on a trip i’m going to go to massachusetts and i can make some plans and i can do some research and sure

i could run out of gas i could get a flat tire i could have an accident or get lost but the chances of all those things are

small and i’m not going to let that stop me from going on the trip i can’t possibly know what might happen

i can’t get a guarantee that every single thing will go as planned and the next step of your

healing journey is the same way you can only see to the next few hundred

feet you can only see the closest next best step and typically

it’s right in front of us but we’re still in the problem and we’re

not in the decision and it can’t line up for us so make the decision first and foremost

don’t turn back once you make the decision for whatever it is that you desire and then let the universe bring you to

your desired destination because it’s already here you could not have a desire if there was not a way for the universe

to bring its fulfillment to you that is god and source working through you so it’s already in you

that’s what created the desire your decision to step into it is what will align you with it all you

have to do is make that decision thanks for being here with me on this episode of the place to be free podcast

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